The Health Protection Agency statistics make depressing reading. The percentage change from 1995-2004 shows large increases in syphillis (1449%), gonorrhea (111%), chlamydia (223%), herpes (15%) and genital warts (32%). The 2003 report to the select committee on Health summarised it well by saying that "the last decade has witnessed a dramatic rise in diagnoses of all major [sexually transmitted] diseases." The Office of National Statistics did a report showing data on the use of condoms in the previous four weeks. It found that 46% of males and 37% of females with one or more new partners used condoms on every occasion that they had sex.
If you have been given the impression that if you wear a condom, you are safe from STIs, you need to consider those figures.
By the way, you also need to know that on its sexual health myths and facts page, BUPA lists as "Myth 3" the statement "Condoms protect against all STIs". I quote:
[...] according to the Family Planning Association, there is little evidence to suggest that condoms protect against the transmission of genital warts. It is also uncertain whether or not condoms can protect against genital herpes.This is not some Catholic thing, it is publically available information. But when were you ever told? By the way, it is recognised that genital herpes, for example, is not curable. If you have it, you have it for life. So will your sexual partner(s).
Now, have another look at those figures from the Health Protection Agency. Which diseases were condoms supposed to protect against? These infections and others not listed put you at risk, variously, of infertility, pelvic inflammatory disease, cervical cancer - oh, and of course, premature death. Marie Stopes has a sex-ed website for children called "likeitis" which calls these infections "Love Bugs". Gee doesn't that make you feel so much better!
In England this dramatic rise in STIs, (also in teenage pregnancies and abortions) has taken place against the backdrop of the "more and better sex education" mantra. The message seems to be "it has dismally failed so far so let's keep on trying the same thing".
Here's a new idea. Keep yourself chaste (and therefore also clean from STIs) until marriage. Marry someone who has done the same.
Here's another idea. If someone is willing to put their neck on the block and cares enough about you as a young person to tell you the truth rather than simply what you might want to hear, they are probably worth listening to.
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I'm amazed at these statistics!!! Surely after 40 odd years of sex education and yet more sex education, and yet more sex education, and so much more sex education to the point that the flippin subject is now entrenched in virtually every other subject in the school curriculum WHY OH WHY do we have increases in STI's by zillions of %%%%'s!
Perhaps it's because, and this is just a small BECAUSE - when the fire is out of control you do not pour more petrol over it to try to put it out!!!
Surely I'm not the only person that went to the 'school of the bleedin' obvious'!!!!
Let's get our kids on the road to chastity, let's stop forcing adult notions into children's minds, let's stop selling our kids short and do let's stop this crazy propaganda that condoms are some kind of universal panacaea to the worlds problems - unless you happen to have stocks/shares in rubber plantations!
Has anyone ever looked at the kind of sex education people get in catholic schools? and by this i mean the very strong catholic schools. The subject is tip toed around with it being treated as just another topic to be covered as imposed by the government. It is taught by members of staff who, due to their strong faith, do not approve of the use of contraception or sex before marriage and so information is limited, just skimming over the basics. Then once we reach the age where some people do require the knowledge about contraceptives, the topic of sex education is scrapped completely, instead replaced with talks such as the ones from Barbara McGuigan which despite continuing to firmly present the Church's oppostion to contraception, does not offer any help to people who don't want "to stay on the road to chastity". Therefore, i don't think it is any wonder that these statistics are so high.
After hearing the views of the late Fr Gareth Moore OP, i am also led to wander whether the church's views on chastity are, in fact, reflections of how views on sex should be. Maybe the immense emotion and union of two people, whether they be married or not, is a good enough expression of love for God.
There is a good book on sex education and how it happened in the US. The same ideas were pushed everywhere. The Book:
"Sex Education--The Final Plague"
By Randy Engel
It is dedicated to Our Lady of Fatima
George
Well, "student". It is far-fetched to suppose that the statistics in England for STIs are caused by Barbara McGuigan and the very small minority of schools that teach chastity education. Information about condoms and every other form of contraception is provided in teenage magazines, by the FPA, by GPs, on the telly and every other public outlet that the sex-ed lobby can influence. If people don't want to "stay on the road to chastity", they can get free condoms, sex-ed, helplines and clandestine abortions quite freely. Despite 30 years of this, the stats tell the story.
On Fr Gareth Moore OP: I'm sure he was a kindly and sincere man. However, his views, most notably on homosexual acts, simply exacerbate the mess that our society is in at the moment on matters related to love and sexuality. For a good article, I suggest the following: The Truth about homosexuality: A reply to Gareth Moore OP. For any of your friends who might be troubled by homosexual temptations, the Catholic teaching on genuine human love, self-control and chastity is the most fulfilling and life-giving way forward. Encourage (the English version of the US organisation "Courage") is also an excellent place to find support and genuine advice.
epsilon - thanks for the heads-up on the spam comment.
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