Danielle Bean writes about the rules that she set down for her daughter, Kateri, when she started her own Facebook profile. I think that they are quite sensible, hence I pass on the link to you, especially parents: Six Rules for Facebook.
Actually the rules are quite sensible for everyone, not just teenagers. Especially:
3. Remember: It's forever.The way I put it to young people is "Do not post anything on the internet that you would not want to be posted on the noticeboard in the school hall."
Yes, you can delete status updates, photos, and even "friends" who turn out to be weirdos, but a well-timed screen shot is all it takes to be your undoing -- with your boss, your kid's school, or your mother-in-law. Even if you maintain the strictest of privacy settings, remember that people love to talk and share, right-click and save. Don't ever share something on Facebook you wouldn't want the entire world to know.
I was interested to read that Danielle's daughter was 16 when this issue came up at home. It's nice to read that. Children wander out into the wild too early here in SE England - often without the kind of wise advice that Kateri has been given.
5 comments:
That's great advice.
@ Father Finigan
My ongoing dispute with my RSL Orbit South has seen them censor a number of fair and reasonable 'City Challenge' comments that I have put up on the new Larner Road Regeneration facebook wall http://www.facebook.com/reqs.php#!/pages/Larner-Road-Regeneration/134486906624144
I will be taking this issue up with my Colyers Ward Councillors this coming Saturday at the Colyers Ward Surgery at Parkview Cross.
Could I ask you as the RC Dean of Bexley to post a link to this related facebook thread on the Larner Road Regeneration facebook wall as my attempts to do so are being blocked here...i.e Larner Road Regeneration We're new to social networking so please bear with us and let us know if you think we can make better use of this site. You may also be interested in our blog at larnerroad.posterous.com and LarnerRd on YouTube
The Conservative Party's Regeneration Czar Michael Heseltine is Bexley Council's link with the post Blitz regeneration of London's Docklands.
My own Thames Gateway links are to the late Canon David Diamond, the C of E's Guardian of Walsingham ( now represented by the Ordinariate ), the Prince's Foundation for the Built Environment http://www.princes-foundation.org/ { who have been copied into my latest professional email concerning the critical Thames Gateway development contained within the Erith Western Gateway Development Framework Supplementary Planning Document (SPD) }, D.A.G.E (Deptford Action Group for the Elderly), Addey & Stanhope School, and Joan Ruddock's Deptford Labour Party too.
Our Lady of the Rosary ( http://the-hermeneutic-of-continuity.blogspot.com/2010/10/celebrating-parish-feast-day.html ) pray for us!
PAPA RATZI ( http://www.thepapalvisit.org ) ORA PRO NOBIS!
Yours sincerely
Roy Hobson aka Our Lady's "Vesper" ON-LINE +
8 Badlow Close,
Erith,
Kent DA8 3SA
ROY HOBSON FRICES1990, FRICS1984,Grad Dipl QS
They told us in Seminary to never put something in an email message that you wouldn't want to see on the front page of The New York Times.
@ Father Finigan
As a Catholic I am opposed to occult psychobabble, so here is a suggested prayer for facebook, the Larner Road Regeneration Project's facebook site http://www.facebook.com/reqs.php#!/pages/Larner-Road-Regeneration/134486906624144 , and Emma the 'frontline' Spiritualist developer employed last week by the POWERS THAT BE who run Charlton Athletic's Community Scheme:
Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle,
be our protection against the
malice and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him
we humbly pray;
and do thou,
O Prince of the Heavenly host,
by the power of God,
thrust into hell Satan
and all evil spirits
who wander through the world
for the ruin of souls. Amen.
After last week's meeting I spoke to the Charlton coaches working on the Ball Court with the poor children of the Larner Road Estate and I gave them the link to my ex Charlton player's facebook site http://www.facebook.com/album.php?id=540164568&aid=369903#!/photo.php?fbid=10150212137514569&set=a.10150212134119569.369903.540164568&theater
Our Lady of the Rosary ( http://the-hermeneutic-of-continuity.blogspot.com/2010/10/celebrating-parish-feast-day.html ) pray for us!
PAPA RATZI ( http://www.thepapalvisit.org ) ORA PRO NOBIS!
Roy Hobson aka Our Lady's "Vesper" ON-LINE +
ROY HOBSON FRICES1990, FRICS1984,Grad Dipl QS
Thank you for sharing. I am an advocate of good netiquette as well.
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