Lengthening the odds against divorce

Antonia posted the following advice from Professor Janet Smith:

If you never want to get divorced ...
  1. Don't have sex before marriage. If you are having sex, STOP!
  2. Get married in a Church, go to Church every Sunday and pray
  3. Use NFP, never contraception
  4. Tithe; give 10% of your money to the Church or good Charities

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